What’s the deal with M.U.(mutual understanding)?

Ok, i just noticed today that most of my friends or people i know is getting into this so called “M.U” and i’m just wondering why? What’s so great about it anyway? Its just a “i like you and you like me back” situatuion.

Ok, for those who are not familiar with this, but MU is a kind of relationship when the girl or boy confesses to their romantic interest, and they confess as well that they feel the same way. When this happens, they go off and telling people that they’re in a MU relationship.
But, let me just clear this. Its a simple relationship without trust, commitment, and that comes with a relationship aside from the ones stated above.

For me, i think this is a stupid idea, and i’d kill whoever thought of the entire concept in the first place. When i was still in high school, sure that MU existed, but back then, we treated it as a “should i answer him and let him take me out, and risk it all or say no” period after the confession where the two barely talk, the girl thinks well of her choice, and the guy prepares for the worse. Seriously, i liked it better that way than now. Why? Mainly because i feel the whole MU thing is like some sort of safety eject button system that allows the the couple to be all sweet and all, but the power to do the same to others. Its like an open relationship; we’re together, but we’re not just sleeping with her/him.

Ok, to admit, i have never been in this situation before, but i have been in a relationship before, and i find it quite lame. If you love him/her and are ready for a relationship, make it one. If not, let him know, but let it be just that. Don’t flirt, don’t act sweet, don’t let the guy hope that with patience, he’ll get something out of you.

*sigh*

But, then again, the people i see are of a different age and generation from us. I forgot that there are different norms for different generations. But, still, its sad to see how the next generation seems a bit too eager to get into relationships, when it really isn’t just a small thing; its a big deal and takes a lot of effort to keep.

I guess they’ll have to learn that the hard way :/

Confessions….the sweetness of it all

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Oh confessions, the bitter sweet feeling when a person finally manages to sum up the courage to tell that special someone of theirs how much they mean to them.

Sure, to most people, its not something much for some people who can win a girl/guy’s heart easily, or some others that the person just falls for them without even trying. But, there are some people that isn’t that lucky, and some are way too scared to even make contact with the opposite sex. But, then again, that’s where most of us fall in.

Admit it, not every guy is a playboy, nor every girl is a slut that can play with a guy. Most of us are simply inexperienced, or just trying to get lucky with love. But, for me, the sweetest thing for these people is the confession.

Sure, its not guaranteed a guy/girl will reciprocate their feelings. But, the sweetest part of it is that they simply want “to let them know”. That they take on the fact that the person they like won’t feel the same, and yet they chose to tell them other wise. The bitter part of it all though, is that some people tend to deny it completely, which is somewhat painful for the person.

In the end, it all comes to how a person sees the situation. Some think its a waste of time if they won’t reciprocate, while others think of it as an achievement itself to let them know.

But, for me, being a hopeless romantic, its quite sweet to watch it in action

To my good friend Salman, good job 🙂

Too much work to do, not enough time

What’s the main problem for most people my age? Simple. Not enough time

Teens nowadays who actually care about some things have quite alot to do, and realizing that their time as students is limited, there are a lot of things they want to do. But, then again, why is this?

For me, my main problem is that time goes way too fast, and i have trouble juggling the ‘what i want to do’ and the ‘what i need to do’. I don’t really know why, but i guess its just my personality to want what i can’t have, and what i don’t have….i have a list.

One, i want to be a better artist, a better guitarist, better dancer, and a lot more. I don’t really know just how to fit them all in my schedule, since i focus a lot more on my chores and studies.

And, yet, i wonder how people actually live their every day lives playing online games with friends, or spending two, three, even four hours chatting with their special someone. I don’t know why people even do this? sure, it would give them a moment of happiness, but what would they get  a few years from now? A sick and tired of playing with game, and an ex girlfriend that just wished you have never met in the first place. But, i want something else. Something i can use even after i get out from college.

to get girls by getting better at serenading with the guitar?

to show off my drawings online?

to become a famous writer like J.K Rowling?

or just because.

Well, its my life. There are a lot i want to do before i reach the end. I can just play games in my free time, and my love life can wait.

 

Like the song from one direction like my sister likes to listen to, we should “live while we’re young!”